Holiday Tips – How to Manage the Holidays when your loved one has dementia or Alzheimer’s disease

The holidays are  full of emotions, so it can help to let guests know what to expect before they arrive.

If the person is in the early stages of Alzheimer’s, relatives and friends might not notice any changes. But the person with dementia may have trouble following conversation or tend to repeat him- or herself.  Family can help with communication by being patient, not interrupting or correcting, and giving the person time to finish his or her thoughts.

If the person is in the middle or late stages of Alzheimer’s, there may be significant changes in cognitive abilities since the last time an out-of-town friend or relative has visited.  These changes can be hard to accept. Make sure visitors understand that changes in behavior and memory are caused by the disease and not the person.   

You may find this easier to share changes in a letter or email that can be sent to multiple recipients. Here are some examples:

  • “I’m writing to let you know how things are going at our house. While we’re looking forward to your visit, we thought it might be helpful if you understood our current situation before you arrive.
  •  “You may notice that ___ has changed since you last saw him/her. Among the changes you may notice are ___.
  •  “Because ___ sometimes has problems remembering and thinking clearly, his/her behavior is a little unpredictable.
  • “Please understand that ___ may not remember who you are and may confuse you with someone else. Please don’t feel offended by this. He/she appreciates your being with us and so do I.”

TO SEE OUR ENTIRE HOLIDAY TIP GUIDE, VISIT THIS LINK!

https://www.alz.org/care/alzheimers-dementia-holidays.asp

For more ideas on how to let others know about changes in your loved one, join ALZConnected, our online support community where caregivers like you share tips on what has worked for them.

 

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